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Confirmation as an event is 99.9% of the time basically the same as a Catholic Mass. Within the Mass there is the Sacrament of Confirmation. That means that there are readings as at Mass, then, before the Eucharist there is the sacrament of Confirmaiton. That means there is a calling down of the Holy Spirit and then through an anointing with consecrated oil (more about this below) the full gifts of the Holy Spirit are given to the Candidates completing what began at their Baptism. The seven gifts of the Holy Spirit are given and for the songs, homilies, and prayers it might be good to be aware of these gifts.
The seven gifts of the Holy Spirit:
1. Wisdom
2. Understanding
3. Counsel
4. Fortitude
5. Knowledge
6. Piety
7. Fear of the Lord
In the Mass the gift of fear of the Lord is sometimes translated as a spirit of reverence and awe before the Lord. One of the Readings is usually from Isaih Chapter 11 " The spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him: a spirit of wisdom and of understanding, A spirit of counsel and of strength, a spirit of knowledge and of fear of the LORD, and his delight shall be the fear of the LORD."
Another list that sometimes comes up in homilies at confirmation is the Fruits of the Holy Spirit. These gifts come from living out of the gifts. Paul refers to this list in Galatians, Chapter 5.
The list is:
The twelve fruits of the Holy Spirit:
1. Charity
2. Joy
3. Peace
4. Patience
5. Kindness
6. Goodness
7. Generosity
8. Gentleness
9. Faithfulness
10. Modesty
11. Self-control
12. Chastity
It would be good to have these vocabulary words ready to go for the any confirmation.
The consecrated oil (called Sacred Chrism). Might be referred to in many different ways:
Anointing from above
Oil poured over the head and running down the beard and over the color
Oil of gladness
Sacred Chrism
It is olive oil that has been mixed with perfume. It has been blessed in the loose sense of the word. More properly it has been consecrated with for interpreting purposes we can simply say it is more strongly blesses. It is not simply blessed. It is consecrated. That is to say it is blessed and the word consecrated gets spelled out maybe. The Bishop of each diocese of the world blesses three oils during a big Mass called the Chrism mass with his priests for the celebrations of sacraments. Two of the oils are blessed. One is consecrated and mixed with oil. That is the one used at confirmation.
The special word for the Holy Spirit Paraclete might be used. This means The Advocate and is signed that way. You could also spell it and sign it depending on the situation.
Finally, if you need to provide assistance for a person who is being confirmed or a sponsor with one of the people being confirmed you will need to know the little dialogue that goes on between the priest/bishop and the person being confirmed. The forehead of the baptized is anointed with the sacred crism with the words, “Be sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit”. They respond, "amen." Then Bishop, "Peace be with you." The person responds, "and also with you."
In Christ,
Fr. St. Martin